Sex Blogging Doesn’t Mean She’s DTF
Hey all. I’m back after after some trials and tribs, namely a death in the family, frustration with the blogosphere, and the way my work is perceived. It’s this last thing […]
Hey all. I’m back after after some trials and tribs, namely a death in the family, frustration with the blogosphere, and the way my work is perceived. It’s this last thing […]
Nine months ago, Mr. Tungsten (or Declan, since he’s out now) signed a contract granting me full discretion over his orgasms: to give, to deny, to dangle like a piece […]
Say that you’re in a kinky relationship. Say one night your partner says to you, hey, I feel like having an old-fashioned double date with another couple — no swinging, […]
One of my favorite films of all time is a gem called The Pillow Book. It’s not an adaptaion of Sei Shonagon’s famous diary, although the book is central to […]
I slept restrained last night. It was the first time Mr. Tungsten had ever done this. He came into our room at bedtime, plucked the iPad out of my grip […]
I posted an entry some time ago called 30 Days of Oral Sex. It was about a challenge we’d given ourselves. Settling it took a lot longer than 30 days […]
Saturday was the first time I went to a bisexual event. It felt like coming home. “Bi” is a tricky appellation. A lot of folks prefer pan- or polysexual or […]
It was one of those shows about taboo relationships that gave us the idea. The phrase “90 days of oral sex” came up and Mr. Tungsten said “I don’t know […]
It happened at Bordello. It was night I wore the club vibe in public for the first time and ground around on a surprised Azuquitar. It was also the night […]
The other day I hung out with A- , an old friend from the days when I clubbed most vigorously. We went to see a screening of remastered Apollo footage. […]